Ladies: when you take his photograph, and he doesn’t want to take yours in return, it means he doesn’t love you. Let him go.
Gents: when she won’t return your phone calls, texts, and emails, it doesn’t mean she is flighty, forgetful, or “in danger.” It means you’ve done something wrong. Give her some space. Leave her alone.
Ladies: the “other woman” is not competition. She is not a “better,” “alternate,” or “new” you. She is a signal that it is time for you to move on to someone better. Do.
Gents: if you sense her body clench, close, freeze, shrug, shift, or shake, stop touching her. It is acceptable to ask her if something is wrong. Be ready to accept the fact that the “something wrong” might be you.
Ladies: there is no shame in crossing to the other side of the street.
Gents: if she spends more time…
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